A Reader’s View of Debi Pearl’s book, Created To Be His Help Meet
For several years an article has circulated on the Internet entitled among other things, “Slave Labor.” It was part of a chapter from a 1954 Home Economics textbook to be taught to high school girls. In summary, the girls were taught to be good housewives by preparing their homes, their supper meal, and their children for the arrival of their hard working husbands. “Try to make your home a place of peace and order where you husband can relax,” is the final point. In other words, treat him as you would a king arriving at the palace.
Those women who would consider such a suggestion as indeed an invitation to “slave labor” or, as a leading feminist called it, “a pleasant concentration camp” would not welcome Debi Pearl’s book, Created to Be His Help Meet. Indeed, the author herself admits to being tempted to skirt not-so-politically-correct issues that would cause her to lose sales. However, her husband Michael advised her, “If God thought it was important enough to inspire it as part of His Word to us, then you should include it”.
For those wanting God’s message to them, this is a great book. Her teaching is based on Scripture, not on popular ideas that come and go. Debi did a thorough study of the role of women in the Bible to prepare for this book. It is based on the design principle, that God created woman unique with an important role in society. That purpose for a married woman is primarily to serve her husband, to make him a success. Attempting to take on the man’s role will result in damage to her marriage, her children, and herself.
About this book the author states, “It took four years, thousands of hours, many tears, revisions and distractions, but I finally finished my book. I had no idea God had so much to say to us ladies until I began going through God’s Word verse by verse, writing the different sections of Created to Be His Help Meet”.
The book could be summarized in the phrase, “Quit trying to make your husband into the man you think he should be and, instead, allow God to make you into the woman He designed you to be”. The result will often be, surprisingly, that God will use you to change him. If you do indeed treat him like a king, he may treat you like the queen. However, this dare not be her reason for wanting to respond correctly.
Every such book can sound theoretical and there are plenty of stories to illustrate how a person’s situation is an exception to the rule. Debi does not skirt difficult situations but includes questions and answers from the Bible. She also deals with the difficult subject of sex in a clear but discrete way.
The fact that, at this writing, the book is in its 8th printing in four years is a strong endorsement. Some pastors even banned the book from their church, but, on the other hand, the many letters from women (and men) who are grateful for what God did in their marriage as a result of the book testify to its effectiveness in teaching God’s ways for women, as His unique creations.
Debi Pearl is the author of multiple best sellers including Created to Be His Help Meet and Listen To My Dream. You can find out more on her website.
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